I am perhaps maybe not attempting to be smart, but i’ve a lovely dh who LIKES me personally also loves me personally. Why shouldnt you’ve got the exact same, everybody else deserves that. You do not deserve this aggression, no-one does. Of course if it absolutely was real it could be even more severe, but its still violence and it’ll wear your self-esteem down til you are feeling useless. Imagine having somebody who will cuddle you and love the very fact it tomorrow” that you have chubby bits, or who will say “forget the washing up lets do. Thats that which you deserve. Now you arrive at the “can I consider the young kids or can I consider myself” bit. There must be a compromise someplace – kids cant develop by having a mum without any selfesteem. Your dh has their good part. Force him to go to counselling with you. He could be demonstrably really unhappy in himself with one thing. I would personally decide to decide to try an ultimatum next time this takes place, and you also might have to make it down until he agrees to choose you. Continue reading ““Lovely” spouse has an awful nasty streak. MNHQ have commented about this thread.”